2009年9月28日 星期一

人格心理学


今日的课题讲 Freud, 老师播放了《》 这条片, 描写男女爱情及情欲如何被压抑, 透过什么来释放.

My homework which is a email that you can talk whatever you want about the class:

Thanks for the movie sharing, it's so exciting that you can talk about sex so liberally.

A classmate raised a question about the movie that I would like to respond in the class. However, after considering the time was so limited, I suppressed my "Id" by my "Ego" to answer her question.

Now, I have time to address her question. Her question was: "Why the woman did not take one more step to secure the man who loved her?"

Even a prostitute who was considered having a lower social status when compared with normal people, she did have self-esteem. I am not very sure that self-esteem is inborn or learnt through culture. Whatever ways it formed, it suppressed her further move from demanding love or money explicitly from the tailor.

When the woman was very sick, she only used her hand to touch the man and did not allow him to kiss her. Her "Supereog" was suppressing her desire of being kissed because she did not want to transmit the diseases to the man. Until that moment, I was sure that she was very much in love with this man.

Oops! It's after 12:00 am now. I am going to Thailand and need to get up at 3:30 am this morning, see you in next lesson.

5 則留言:

佛爺 提到...

奧地利猶太裔精神分析學家佛洛依德是我的偶像,雖然我不太明白他的理論,但我大概知道這篇帖講什麼.以我的理解,佛氏認為,構成人類性格行為有三大要素:本能id、自我ego、超自我superego.本能是人類原始慾望:有「生」的本能和「死」的本能.「生」的本能是「性」,「死」的本能是「毀滅」.「自我」是對現實的理解.「超自我」是社會道德和良知.佛氏認為「自我」是最為困苦的,因它要平衡「本能」無止境的要求,又要應付「超自我」對本能的壓抑.所以「自我」就會產生五種「自我防衛」方法,從而形成了人的部份性格.

染上了性病的妓女,她「本能」想親她所愛的男人,但「超自我」,「良知」壓抑了她的「本能」慾念.該段文只提及「超自我」壓抑著本能,沒有講及「自我」在中間起的平衡作用,使她用手去觸摸該名男人的是「自我」,她仍然以現實的方法去表達她的愛,所以她並沒有完全受到「超自我」的壓制.若果她的「本能」完全受到「超自我」的壓抑,她就不會觸摸該位她所愛的男人了.

篤篤篤撐 提到...

SELF ESTEEM唔會係inborn, 因為id只由 libido 推動...

佚名 提到...

小瓶子:
中秋節快樂!!^^

Betty 提到...

Just back from trip, 大家中秋节快乐哦!

匿名 提到...

Recently, I am not into psychoanalysis. It seems that neither love nor self-esteem are constructs we used to dicuss within the framework of psychoanalysis. Probably, both can be regarded as a reflection of one's ego's strength. Love is unlikely to be an impulse encompassed within the id. The decision of withholding the kiss seems to be a rational decision relying on the integrity of one's ego strength rather than superego which operates through guilt and shame. Defense mechanism are to protect the ego or the self. There is no obvious internal conflicts in this case...... (This is not a thorough analysis, just a quick impression.... open to errors, so don't take it seriously, cheers)